I have been thinking about this for a while like why do we care so much about making time or being part of what makes them happy? I believe that if a person doesn’t care about what you do for them or how nice you are to them its all because they have what makes them happy.
One can do so much for a person but at the end of the day they’ll still choose and go with whatever makes them happy. It doesn’t matter what you do for them or what you bring to them because they have decided to focus and have time for whatever it is that makes them happy.
Love is supposed to be happy also ni all kinda love pls Friendship, Situation ship and relationship wait can I add swallowship for the culture. If you dont feel like your effort is appreciated then maybe you dont make them happy and they wont notice if you stop. Its important to notice this things and please choose what makes you happy this time because they’ve chosen what them happy.
I guess that’s why I keep to myself because everyone has what they love and I dont want to make them stop doing that because it what keeps them going, someone asked me if I was okay and tears just decided to do their thing. I thought to myself that maybe they really wanted t know how I’m doing and that’s why I cried.
But people we love have people they love and its okay !